Discipline

So, you've got 3 cross ice scrimmages going on the ice at the same time ... 37 kids + 14 adult on-ice helpers = 51 bodies on the ice.  At the end of practice you have a parent approach and ask you what you're going to do about the kid that two-handed their child with a hockey stick over the head.  You didn't actually see it, but if the parent mentions it, you gotta believe it's true.  This happened to me, and that's why I wrote this short action plan for disciplining kids.  I just wish I had to write and share it with the parents prior to this incident.  I also spoke to two other coaches to get their opinions and input on this plan, and we all felt this seemed like a reasonable approach.
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The 3 strike rule:
 
First time: take player aside and warn them what they're doing is not acceptable.
 
Second time: player sits on bench for a couple of minutes (apologizes to other player if one involved)
 
Third time: player is asked to leave the ice for remainder of that practice.

Ensure all on-ice helpers know that they are permitted to discipline the children using the above steps.  Anytime a child is disciplined, you must inform the coach and the coach informs the other coach (if the incident involves the other team).

Reminder to all, that sometimes an incident may be perceived differently from the stands.  Anytime, a parent has a concern, they should inform coach immediately after practice so an incident can be dealt with quickly.  Parent should also inform coach if they are unhappy with the results after disciplinary action has been taken.

Ensure ALL parents are aware of the process.